Its that time of year again.
One year is coming to a close and a new one is about to begin.
For me this is always a time of significant meaning. I find myself frequently reflecting on what I have accomplished in the past year and then projecting forward to formulate goals for the new year. Its a process I take pretty seriously. My wife often thinks I take TOO seriously and its true I am sometimes guilty of trying to over-achieve.
Its a trap I have fallen into before. In wanting to reach so many lofty goals I find myself burning out trying to achieve them all. Its a lesson I keep on learning and I think over the years I have begun to get just a little bit smarter.
I have always been a goal oriented person, and I still believe that's a good thing. My problem was that I just had too many goals. Its easy for me to sit down and develop a laundry list of objectives I want to achieve in a wide array of areas. There's just so many things I am interested in. In martial arts for example I have studied Judo, Kendo, Tae Kwon Do, Judo, Historical European Swordsmanship, Jeet Kune Do, and the list goes on. Another passion of mine is reading. I love reading American history, military history, European history, science fiction, classic literature, physiology and exercise science, biographies, etc.
I believe that all that I have studied and accomplished so far on this Earth has been good and beneficial. Just look at my last blog post (The Right 'Fit') and you will see what I mean. In fact what I am saying now may seem inconsistent with what I was saying there but it is not really. Practicing a variety of physical pursuits can offer much to increase one's overall fitness and movement palette. But right now for me personally at this stage of my life I feel it is time to focus more narrowly.
My widely scattered interested have left me feeling diffused. I now want to choose just a few areas of interest and specialize in them exclusively. By digging deeper into fewer wells I will be able to go deeper and actually accomplish more.
I have actually been thinking about this for quite a while. I've bounced back and forth in different directions but more and more I am learning to listen to that still, small voice inside that leads me to know what is true, in other words - what is right for me.
I must also say that there has been another voice that I have listened to that I value highly in helping me steer in the right direction: my wife, Liesl. She knows me better than anyone and knows how to bring to back down to earth when I get a little too starry eyed. She is also the one that has taught me the most about keeping a balance in life. This has been a very important lesson for me as I found myself out of balance in the past. You have to look at your whole life: family, work, your passions, your health, money, etc.
For example, for some time now I have had the notion of expanding on my running activities by breaking into triathlons. In and of itself this might sound like a fine idea. But as I looked at my training schedule and calendar and everything else I am doing these days I didn't know how I could fit it in and I told Liesl about this dilemma. She helped me to see that I was beginning to extend myself just a little too far once again.
So it was then that I decided to stick to running and pass on the triathlons. When I went back to my calendar with this in mind things seemed a lot simpler and easier to manage. As a result I am making plans to run in three marathons this year but no triathlons. That's the kind of thing I mean when I am talking about going deeper into fewer areas and achieving bigger results.
I am going through a similar process now in all areas of my life. Come the new year I will have narrowed down my interests to a core list of activities for the next year and beyond. One of them, running, you now know. The rest I will share with you later. Stay tuned!
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